![]() ![]() Just because you are apart does not mean you can’t have any sort of sexuality with your man/woman. This magical neurotransmitter not only helps couples bond, but it reduces cortisol, the stress producing hormone! Also, getting to have this time to yourselves will not only reduce anxieties of wondering whether the attraction is still there, but it will give you a break from your distance-induced celibacy. However, just getting to touch your partner’s body and kiss is enough to release the “love hormone,” oxytocin. I don’t mean have sex in the shower, though if you’re able to, go for it the secret to that still remains a mystery to me. Though it’s not as great as playing naked fort in bed, taking a shower together is an awesome way to set aside time for some intimacy. Be in the moment together and don’t let all the noise ruin the fun! Although it can sometimes be impossible to get everything done - sometimes there definitely seems to be more than there should be - make sure you are able to tune it out in order to enjoy your time together. This will not only make your free time less enjoyable, but your partner will notice and pick up on the stress and join in having a less than good time with you. Not having done what you had to do is probably going to be in the back of your mind most of the time you get to spend with your partner. Not only do these things rob you of your precious time, but they can also be a burden on the quality of time you have. ![]() We have a habit of underestimating how much time we spend on little things, like some homework here and car wash there, but things build up. Sometimes this can easily translate into hours of extra time with your special someone. Before your partner even arrives, or before you arrive with them, make sure to get as many things out of the way as you possibly can beforehand. Having the advantage of planning ahead will also help you score some time for some late-night fun. Sometimes all it takes is planning a little ahead of time. ![]() Do homework together at the same time instead of separately sitting down while the other does who knows what. If you haven’t got a single pair of undies left, bringing your honey along with you and having them finish up some of their chores along with you will work wonders. Another way to make every second last is to do chores together. because it’s the weekend and you love sleeping in more than life itself, however tempting it may be. Am I saying wake up at an ungodly hour? No, just don’t let yourself wake up at 12 p.m. ![]() Do you go out and share the new places you’ve found with your significant other or do you stay in and spend the little time you have down in the sheets?įor example, before going to bed with your loved one, set your alarm for a decent hour instead of waking up whenever your body feels like it. It is surprising to learn that sometimes it just takes a little adjusting to steal some extra time!įitting in time for sex in a long-distance relationship can sometimes feel like a game of pick and choose. Most of the time, there is still homework to do, laundry to wash, work to finish, things to take care of, which must get done, even if it means having to make your man/woman tag along. Do you go out and share the new places you’ve found with your significant other or do you stay in and spend the little time you have down in the sheets? For a lot of you, it might seem only too obvious to think, “Why not just do both?” But the reality is that sometimes that is not an option. Having been in such situations before, I’ve learned that even with all of the crazy shenanigans in between, you can always make time for a little fun in bed.įitting in time for sex in a long-distance relationship can sometimes feel like a game of pick and choose. As if it weren’t hard enough to be separated by hundreds of miles, working around school, work and other personal obstacles can be difficult and unpredictable. Since having easy access to sex is one of the main greatest reasons of being in a relationship, the inability to touch your partner may be half the reason you might find the process so painful. In spite of what seems to be a radical shift in your relationship, however, perhaps one of the hardest things - no pun intended - of being so far apart is the lack of intimacy. Setting the distance aside, you’re fighting against all sorts of other natural elements resulting from the miles in between you can no longer meet each other at that cute little coffee shop you both loved lounging at every Sunday, and you can’t just drive over and have a lazy Netflix night at his or her place. However, for some, it can feel a little like trying to extinguish a fire by dousing it in gasoline, all while throwing grenades and heaps of dynamite at it from afar. For some couples, it’s like a temporary little vacation and maybe even gives room for some “me-time” on both sides. It’s no secret that trying to make a long-distance relationship work can be challenging. ![]()
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